Estrangement doesn’t end because a parent says “just get over it” or “family is everything.” It doesn’t end because they want a holiday photo or because they suddenly feel uncomfortable with the distance. Healing only begins when the people who caused harm become safe enough to come back to. And safety is not sentimental. It’s not performative. It’s not a “we love you and miss you” text. Safety is accountability. Safety is truth-telling. Safety is the end of secrecy, control, gossip, triangulati

I was just sitting with my friend when they came, politely asked if they could chat and take some pics, and I was like “sure, why not” 😂 They were honestly so kind and funny – I don’t really mind when it’s genuine curiosity. Not everyone would feel the same though… how would you react in this situation? #fyp #viralvideos #china #ethiopian_tik_tok🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇹 #hairstyle